WFP: More meal planning in action!
It went pretty well this week. I didn’t entirely stick to the plan, but it felt much better to have ideas and recommit to this meal planning thing now that we’re a little more settled after baby. Plus, I love thinking about food… imagine that!
Wednesday: Roast chicken and vegetables with pesto gravy. Homegrown tomatoes and beets, store-bought potatoes and onions, chicken from down the road, sauce made from pan drippings and homemade/homegrown pesto.
Thursday: Impromptu get-together with my sister at my parent’s house. We collaborated and made a tuna noodle thing and homegrown roast summer squash and eggplant.
Friday: Chicken tacos made from leftover chicken cooked up in homemade/grown salsa, served with homegrown broccoli salad, refried beans, and corn chips.
Saturday: No picture- had a little dinner party with Jeff’s sisters and they brought food! So delicious- it was lasagna and an apple crisp. Yummy. While it was a total treat (who doesn’t love lasagna and apple crisp?!), there was something interesting that spawned from that meal. The whole next day (Sunday), I felt like I couldn’t tell when I was hungry or full. I found myself feeling "munchy" most of the day, and having to ask myself questions like- Am I hungry? Am I bored? I just ate, why am I thinking about what to snack on? Anyway, Jeff seemed to notice a difference in himself, too, and we started thinking… Our friend was talking to us about how she was able to figure out what was wrong with her family’s diet (milk and gluten allergies) by abstaining from certain things for a month, then adding them back in one at a time. She said most people don’t know how crappy they feel, but once they strip the bad stuff out, then they’re able to see when something is off. Well, I know that’s true. I now know that most delivery pizzas do not agree with me- whether it’s the high gluten content or the crappy ingredients and loads of grease, I don’t know. But I never remember noticing it when I didn’t eat as well. Also, when Vera has too much sugar (and I mean like a piece of cake with frosting or something at a party, she can handle pies and more naturally sweetened things much better) it affects her negatively. Her appetite for normal things is spoiled- for a couple of days after she’ll ask me for many more sweet/floury things and turn her nose up at normal meals. She also tends to be more irritable. Then, after a couple of days she’s back to her old self, eating what we do and having her normal moods.
Anyway. I think this comes down to sugar and refined flours, etc. I read somewhere that those things can do all of that- affecting mood, cravings, even your ability to tell when you’re sated. It’s not that we don’t have these things in our diets to some degree- but it’s clear that we’ve been able to strip them out to the point where we can feel the difference when we ate a meal full of them. So, I’m determined to continue working on keeping our grains soaked/fermented (gotta start up with sourdough again!), and keeping our sugar intake very limited and mostly nutritive (honey, maple syrup, raw sugar, etc.). I knew this all before, but it just really hit us again this past weekend. I think I can have fun working to find a way to make a sprouted grain pasta, or a perfect sourdough pita bread, etc. This is a really good realization to have, especially because I was feeling less motivated about that stuff.
Sunday: Bean and squash soup. Yay crock pot! I love my crock pot on days when we’re gone. Coming home to nourishing food that you didn’t have to think about… so nice! Anyway, this was made with chicken stock made from the chicken (3 different meals from that small bird, and we’ve still got leftovers), homegrown summer squash, jalapeños, garlic, tomatoes. Store bought onions, cilantro, black/pinto beans (although all were local, I think, except maybe the pinto beans). Spices. Turned out to be a really good soup.
Monday: Food storage day… we caved and Jeff bought burgers from this retro drive-inn down the street. They are a treat sometimes. We just were so done with dealing with food on that day, plus we had no stove space anyway. The irony of eating take out on a food storage day is not lost on me, but I am pleased that we stored a good amount of food- certainly enough to feed us many times this winter. I did resist the oh-so-yummy fries (undoubtedly fried in partially-hydrogenated toxic yuck, which I’m trying to avoid more strictly these days) and replaced it with homegrown peppers, zucchini, and tomato slices. I also included a little pile of homemade/homegrown sauerkraut for a probiotic boost.
And some of our work that day:
A total of 33 quarts of beans from our 2 raised beds this summer. That’s not including the ones we made into dilly beans, and the loads that we ate fresh. I’m so amazed! Also next to that is some experimental roasted eggplant/pepper/tomato spread. I’m thinking it’ll be awesome on a grilled sandwich or something…
Tuesday: Salmon cakes (canned salmon, bread crumbs, egg, salt & pepper, parsley) topped with homemade mayo/pesto sauce, served with homegrown tomato slices, and homemade/grown coleslaw. One of my favorite meals, whether it be made with salmon or tuna.
Now, having committed to a mostly local diet, I have decided to make an exception for the occasional meal including fish. Salmon, in particular, is a really nutritious food- high in protein, calcium, Vitamin D, B12, B6, etc., and of course all of those lovely omega-3s. We get wild canned salmon- wild because it’s much lower in contaminants than farmed salmon (which is important to me, especially with little developing brains in this house), and canned because it’s a good cheap option. Now, I’m concerned with the sustainability end of it all, even though I’ve read that people say the salmon is not being over-fished. I don’t believe that, because they are always determining that stuff in light of certain levels of decline. According to my calculations, any level of decline is unsustainable… but anyway. I guess I don’t have a great answer for why I make the exception. I suppose it’s a combination of realizing that my food choices are not going to actually save the world (I just do it really because I think it’s the right thing to do and tends to be better for us), and also that I want to my family to eat good food and have what they need to stay healthy in a really toxic world. Sort of the same reason I might buy us some spinach in the middle of winter, or some avocado for Asa when he starts to eat solid food- that kind of thing. It’s an exception, I know that. Maybe someday I’ll have this all figured out…
Note #1: part of the reason I want to include what’s homegrown/made is that I want to track my progress and see how our meals might change throughout the year. Also to see what else I might be able to reliably grow each year rather than buy (eg. we’ve always bought potatoes and onions, but I’m hoping that’ll change this year with our harvest)
Note #2: Not specifically about food, but now that I’m 7 weeks postpartum, I’m starting to think about getting back into shape. I didn’t weigh myself at all through pregnancy, so I have no idea how much I gained in the end. I just ate well and exercised as I could. I had to weigh myself at an appointment at about 1-2 weeks postpartum (even though I hadn’t planned on looking at a scale until around now). I weighed myself this morning and am down 4 pounds from that. Anyway, I won’t be mentioning those numbers (unfortunately those numbers seem to have more of an effect on me than I’d like), but I’m interested to see how my body responds to just eating this way and exercising when I can. For the record, my diet consists of about 50-60% of calories from fat- most of that being saturated (butter, coconut oil, animal fat, whole raw milk)… I believe it’s recommended to stick to about 20-30%, and to really limit saturated fat. I’ve just got different information. Otherwise I eat mostly whole, organic foods. I’m not planning on restricting calories at all. As for exercise, I am active every day, but usually that just means I’m doing general housework/garden work, and I hop on the elliptical once a week or so (I’m trying to carve out more time for it, though), and I take walks. Also worth mentioning is I’m not one of those women who bounces right back after pregnancy. I didn’t lose my baby weight with Vera until after she started eating solid food regularly at 9 months. She was a good 18 months before I really felt back to what I feel was a good weight for me. Nursing doesn’t always do it for everyone. But I also wasn’t eating quite as good as I do now. Anyway, I suppose I’m just interested in how much of a process it’ll be to get "back". Obviously every body is different, but I’m curious about how my body responds to no restriction of calories and a high-fat diet after having a baby. I was eating that way before I got pregnant, and was very stable weight-wise and in really good shape, but I have no idea how it will work in terms of weight loss. Interesting tidbit- Jeff eats this way too, and he’s always wishing he would gain weight. My theory? I’ll get back in shape naturally with minimal effort, although I have no idea how quickly. My theory just challenges common knowledge about weight-loss and nutrition, so I thought it might be relevant. Are people interested in my sharing about this?
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Definitely interested in you sharing your experiences with post-partum diet/weight loss. I’m not one to bounce back right after giving birth, either, probably a lot to do with PCOS/hormonal issues. Actually, I’ve gained weight in the last year or so, despite a pretty healthy diet and moderate exercise. I recently weighed myself for the first time since I had Eilidh, (I was at my sil’s, we don’t even have a scale)and I’m currently my highest weight ever. I know I’ve already gained a little this pregnancy, but I’m kind of hoping that I can step up my activity level and not gain a ton in the next 6 or 7 months. I know some people actually lose weight when they’re pregnant, but I’m not going to do anything unhealthy, just eat right and be more active.
Cool, I’ll post about it then. PCOS seems like a real headache! I know so many people who have that. I wish they knew what caused it- or at least how to treat it, you know? I mean, I know they bombard women with a bunch of treatments that don’t really heal the issue, right? Anyway, I hope that you feel really good through this pregnancy and gain as much as you need to. π
I did actually lose some weight in the first few months after giving birth, but then gained even more back…:(
PCOS is really frustrating, for sure. I hope one day there’s some kind of cure…right now there aren’t any good options. Surgery is invasive, and is only temporary, as the cysts can grow back after only a short time. The drug I was offered is actually meant for diabetes or something, and while it can help some of the symptoms, it has downsides that scared me away. The DCI that I started taking is all natural, and sounds great, but it’s expensive, and I’ve not taken it consistently for a long enough time to really know how well it works.
Thanks:) I’ve been really tired, but not too bad otherwise so far, beyond a little bit of nausea.
It took 18 months after each pregnancy to get back into shape but neither time did I diet or do any extra exercise. Dieting makes me incredibly, incredibly depressed and moody, so it is not safe at all for me. Instead I just have to have a lot of faith that when my body is ready, it will lose the weight, and it does. Around 18 months I’ll suddenly lose 20lbs without trying.
That’s a great way to look at it. I’ll just have to trust that it will happen when it is supposed to. I remember being discouraged after Vera, too, but then it just seemed to all melt off really quickly. Maybe that’s just how my body does it! π
I hope you’re feeling well. I know it’s tough being pregnant with just one little one to care for! I’m thinking of you, and if I lived nearby I’d definitely bring you a meal. π
Just sharing my pregnancy weight experience…I actually lost about 15lbs within the first week after birth. I gained that back by the third week, as I upped my calories and added lots of fat to cope with milk supply issues. I’m pretty sure that my milk was nearly all butter by that time. ;0
Now, being about 19 months postpartum, and eating quite well (with falling off the wagon into some ice cream pretty regularly) I have JUST started losing pregnancy/baby weight…small amount, like 8-10 lbs (I don’t weigh myself much, but I’m down about 10lbs from my highest postpartum weight). I think our diets are quite similar, maybe mine with less dairy and more slips into the processed than you. I, too, notice that when we eat refined foods like sugar and flour, I crave and eat more of the same for the days that follow. Refined sugar is a beast, eh?
Henry still nurses a lot, and I do a moderate amount of physical activity. I need to step it up some more in the exercise department, I think, because it feels good and will help me be at a more normal weight before I get pregnant again.
Anyway, I’m not one of those people who lose weight because they breast feed. This is taking it a little far, but what if our bodies need that extra weight during nursing to tweak hormones that will keep us from becoming pregnant too soon after birthing? I mean, body fat and estrogen have a relation; and evolutionarily speaking, wouldn’t it make sense to allow one’s body to fully recover from pregnancy, birthing and sustaining another person with our milk to keep kids 2-3 years apart? Just a thought. Sorry to ramble in your comments!
Maybe you’re like me and cknk up there- it’ll just come off when it’s good and ready. I bet what you say is true- I’m sure our bodies really know what they are doing. I actually really didn’t want to be pregnant again until after Vera turned two, and was night-weaned. It all kind of worked out in that way. Anyway, I always heard that with breastfeeding, the weight will just come right off, but it just didn’t happen that way. I thought about it, and wasn’t sure if it is supposed to. I’m pretty sure the maternal fat stores are to help support all the extra work your body is doing- it’s not meant to burn right off… I think it’s interesting about the relationship between body fat and estrogen, I bet there’s something to that. Anyway, feel free to ramble anytime! π
Did you know that your breastmilk has 25% more calories this time than last time because you’re nursing a boy? Just a tidbit I picked up in a parenting magazine this past winter while pumping for Ben. Apparently because boys (on average) are larger and grow taller/bigger more quickly the breastmilk needs to have more calories for them.
I know that nursing/pumping helped me to shed a lot of weight postpartum and helped me to get back to my pre-preggo weight throughout the 1st year. I think if you’re eating healthily and food that nourishes you (and Asa through you) then you’re doing it right.
I’m loving your week of food. I got some great ideas from your meals (salmon cakes: YUM).
Wow, that’s so interesting! I had no idea that your body could discern that kind of thing. This whole process never ceases to amaze me. I’m so excited for you. Hey, and salmon cakes are super good for little baby brains… π
It makes sense your body could discern that, there is some evidence that some of the baby’s blood/DNA gets transferred to the mother through the umbilical cord. Even if it’s just to process waste, that would make sense. And that way your body would be prepared to properly nourish the munchkin once it comes out. Hm. Interesting.
Yummy! I miss your occasional food posts! I hope you can update more soon, your posts are missed and I’m curious about how schooling is going. π
I want to know everything you want to share, but I am also interested in learning about post-partum baby weight stuffs. I’m not terribly open with this information, but part of my weight problem right now has some to do with the fact that I got pregnant (lost the baby) and never lost the weight I had started to gain. It’s too late to blame it all on that now, the rest is on my crappy eating habits (and getting into drinking beer when I worked at the brewery is what finally did me in), but it’s all part of the picture.
Most delivered pizzas, unless you get it from someplace that specifically advertises are being organic, have HFCS in the sauce. Also the flour is HIGHLY refined, in order to facilitate speedy gluten production.
My boyfriend is highly entertained that he knows everything that is in your poop now. It’s kinda juvenile, but at least the poop and fart jokes keep me laughing!
I’m so sorry about your loss! I hope you have the support you need right now. That kind of a loss can be challenging in so many ways. I had a very early miscarriage (like if I hadn’t tested on a hunch I wouldn’t have known), and even so I was really affected by it. Anyway, I’m here if you need someone to talk to. π
Well now it all makes sense with the pizza. I have basically stripped all of that junk out of my diet, so no wonder I react to it.
This is surely a generalization, but what is it with boys and the “potty humor”? I swear, it’s not that I’m averse to the idea of it being funny, but it never ceases to amaze me how quickly they can turn something unrelated into a poop joke. My friend who lives downstairs thinks anything fart is the most hilarious thing… boys! He frequently tells a story about how his fart scared Vera and she fell over. I think he’d like an award or something. ;P
I don’t mean to sound unaffected or cavalier about it, but it just doesn’t bother me much anymore. I’ve had 16 confirmed pregnancies (in 10 years of sexual activity), and only two have made it past 10 weeks. I’ve just sort of become numb to the whole process, and I think that’s part of why I believe life begins at viability. Not to get into the life/choice debate, mind you, just that it’s relevant to the rest of the conversation: I made my OBGYN promise me (last time I made it past 10 weeks) that she wouldn’t tell me a gender until 32 weeks. I know they’re viable before then, it’s just… I’m so afraid to get attached. So I’ve developed a coping mechanism of not worrying about it. Sure, I cry every time it happens, but it’s happened so much that now I just rebound faster emotionally (it helps that so far I haven’t been in a situation that I could responsibly raise a child, and that is a major comfort–again, hate to sound cruel but it’s almost a relief).
Contrast that of course with the fact that every time I end up gaining some weight that doesn’t want to drop off, and the fact that I desperately want to be a mother… let’s just say my head is a somewhat confusing place to live ;).
But I’ve decided that when the time is right, everything will fall into place. So I’m just trying to make sure that when that time comes, I’m ready. Physically strong, good habits food- and life-wise, and financially stable. Being a good mother to my children before they get here. Maybe it’s weird, but it keeps me motivated.
In completely other news… Yeah, I’m trying really hard to get into good food habits again, but I think I’m making it harder than it needs to be. We ended up with pizza again last night because we’ve been so terrible at planning ahead. Maybe I just need to be planning/starting tomorrow’s dinner today–and I’ll stop trying to worry about a week at a time, or even more than one day ahead. That way it’s a simple matter of asking: what do we have now that will still be good tomorrow, and how can I put a bunch of it together? No different than making dinner every night, but it’ll make eating when I get home from work that much easier.
We turned City of Angels into a giant poop joke. Couldn’t stop giggling.
I don’t think you sound bad at all- people experience these things differently. I didn’t realize you were open to getting pregnant right now! I hope that it works out soon. Has your OBGYN figured out why you’ve lost so many pregnancies? Anyway, after I had Vera I thought about what happened in a whole new light. I thought about it down to the timing of my cycles, the way that it changed my life down to the littlest details, so that I ended up with my precious daughter- the only one I can imagine now. Anyway, it gave me a lot of faith and helped me to feel more peace about all those things I can’t control. Of course, I had to have her to realize those things, but now that I do I’m so glad that things have gone exactly as they have.
On the eating thing- I think it shouldn’t be super stressful. I remember trying to quit smoking and I’d end up smoking more than usual on those days because I was setting too much in the way of limits. For me, I try to play on my motivation. I know I won’t always have the energy or time to eat well, so when I do have those things I try to compensate. So I have soups that I made extra of in the freezer that I can defrost quickly, etc. But we also like to splurge sometimes, and I’m a fan of not beating up on ourselves. I figure we’re always getting better and doing more, so it’s important to allow for the process and not go nuts trying to be perfect.
City of Angels into a poop joke? I have no idea how you pulled that one off…
I’m not really open to getting pregnant now, but at the same time if I did it would be a momentary panic and then I’d be ecstatic. I’m sure I would still have many more panic moment like any new mother, but in general I’d be happy about it. Still, I have an IUD and no intentions of removing it any time soon. That whole responsibility thing, I’m not in a position to be raising another human being right now, I’m still raising myself.
As for city of angels, you know that scene where after she dies he’s in the market and picks up a pear? I saw that and was ike noooo don’t take all the pears (and of course he does)… well then the boy was like OMG He’s gonna have a massive poop after all them pears… and we were giggling how the first time he gets diarrhea he’s gonna get that gurgle and be confused and then poop his pants and be surprised and analyzing it like he was analyzing the food they were eating, and generally “enjoying the experience.” Endless hours of giggling about pears and pants-pooping angels.
Lots of delicious-looking food in this post! I love roasting a whole chicken for the same reason you mention: so many meals from one bird! And I’ve never thought of stirring pesto into the pan juices, so I will have to try that some time. I have roasted a chicken with pesto rubbed under the skin, so that’s another variation on roast chicken and pesto…
Pesto! So good. I still have to try that radish leaf pesto. Anyway, if you do try to make the sauce, I didn’t do much other than add the pesto, but I did add just a teeny bit of homemade yogurt to make it a little creamier. Anyway, I loved seeing your food when you were posting about it. More food! π
That pesto gravy sounds really good. π
Why would you be offensive? I’m happy to answer. No, I don’t pay special attention, but I do catch myself eating more than I need on occasion and stuffing myself. Something I’m trying to pay attention to is when I’m really satisfied. I’ve found that if I feel satisfied (but not totally full) and then wait about a half an hour, I will find that the hunger for more has gone. I just need my brain to catch up with my stomach. So yeah, I have paid some attention to trying not to over-eat. But I’ll listen to my actual cues. I’m nursing and if I’m legitimately hungry I’m not going to stop myself just because it seems like too much or something. Actually, I’ve found that I have much less trouble with overeating when it’s a meal that’s not full of refined stuff or too many grains. Pasta usually has me eating too much, or feeling hungry too soon. But, when I eat salmon cakes and veggies, for instance, I will come away really satisfied for hours. But I don’t have it down to a science yet, unfortunately! π
I trained myself to stop eating when I was no longer hungry. Lately I have found that I lose the desire to eat while I’m still hungry. As in, I’ll eat 8 bites, it’s delicious food, and I can’t force myself to eat anymore even though I still feel hungry. I’ll usually then sit complaining for HOURS about being hungry, but everything that goes near my mouth makes me cringe. It’s more than a little frustrating. But for years, just stopping when I was no longer hungry (rather than “full”) worked just fine. The biggest help I think was not overloading my plate to begin with. I could always go back for seconds.
Your meals always look so good! I tend to get hungry when I look at your pictures.
Feeling weird after eating certain foods that you don’t normally have – I think there is definitely something in that. I donβt eat fries and things like that very often but when I do have them, for days afterward I will want them all the time. It puts me in a sort of pigging out mode even if I’m not hungry. It happened just the other day… at the airport in Italy, we were in a rush to catch our plane home and had to grab something quick to eat. There wasn’t much on offer, so we went for the fast food. The next day I found myself craving chocolate and other junk food. I don’t really get that anymore, and I’ve started to notice that it usually only happens if I do eat something crappy.
Quite a while ago you shared that link to that article, The Skinny on Fats, and I found it very helpful. For years I restricted what I ate, I didn’t diet as such but I kept an eye on the amount of fat I was eating because I had a thing about ‘health’, and whenever I ate something I thought was ‘bad’ I would have chest pains and panic about stuff. After reading that article I made a decision to stop worrying about fat and finally allowed myself to eat normally without imagining it was going to give me a heart attack. This doesn’t mean I went crazy, I just stopped thinking so much about calories and fat and what they might do to me, and since then I’ve dealt with far fewer anxiety attacks. I’m also gaining some weight, which if I’m honest, I was afraid of and still have mild issues with. I’ve always had a habit of hopping on the scales. But I know it’s not a big deal, I’m still underweight and could do with putting on a good few more pounds.
It’s good that you’re not putting pressure on yourself to lose baby weight quickly. I’m sure that in time you’ll naturally get back to the weight that’s right for you – running around after two little ones will surely help! π
Isn’t that interesting? I really think it must come down to the body getting too much sugar and crashing/craving for it (whether it be in the form of sweets or refined carbs), and yucky oils which can actually create vitamin deficiencies leaving your body searching for nutrients… I actually think I’m going to talk a little about that next WFP, because I’ve been reading up on it lately.
I’m really glad you found that article helpful. It was definitely one of the first that got me really questioning stuff and thinking differently about my relationship with food. It’s still such a strange article, though, because it’s so contrary to popular thought. Anyway- yes, with a high (good) fat diet, you will either gain weight or lose it, but I’m confident (barring unique circumstances) that it will support a healthy weight. I have to admit, I was pretty shocked when my diet was so high in fat and I lost all my baby weight and then some and felt so fit after having Vera. It was great to see it really happen! I guess my point is, if you’re gaining weight that’s probably exactly what your body wants! I try to stay away from the scale, if I can, and just go with how I feel. I’m much better that way. π
On a completely unrelated note, I would love to hear your thoughts on my most recent entry (protein shakes) if you have time π
Hope you and your family are doing well!
Sure! I haven’t been able to look through my FL thoroughly in days, but I’m about to go there now. π